Planning a Motorcycle Wedding Exit

A motorcycle exit works best when you plan four things in advance. The first is a dress that can sit on a bike without catching in the wheel or chain. The second is a helmet that fits around the hair and veil. The third is a short, slow route for the photos. The fourth is a way to get the bike to the venue. If the wedding is far from home, most couples ship the motorcycle a week or two ahead instead of riding it there.

Key Takeaways

  • Do a test sit in the dress, on the actual bike, before the wedding.
  • Keep the exit ride short. The photos happen in the first hundred yards.
  • Ship the bike so it arrives two or three days before the wedding.

Why Couples Choose a Bike

For some couples, a classic car just isn’t them. If you met at a rally, took your first trip together on two wheels, or spent the engagement restoring an old Harley in the garage, riding off on that bike feels a lot more honest than climbing into a rented Rolls-Royce.

It also makes for great photos. The guests line up, the engine starts, someone throws petals or waves sparklers, and you pull away with the dress and veil moving in the wind. It’s loud, and it’s fun, and people remember it.

Choosing a Dress That Works on a Bike

This is the part most couples underestimate. A long, full skirt and a spinning rear wheel don’t mix.

A few options that work:

A second look for the exit. Plenty of brides change into a shorter dress, a jumpsuit, or a fitted reception gown before the send-off. It solves most problems at once.

A bustle. If you’re staying in the ceremony dress, have your seamstress add a strong bustle and test it. The train needs to be fully up and secured, not just pinned loosely.

Sitting position. Sitting astride on the back seat is safer than sitting sideways, and most dress shapes can manage it with a bustle. Try it in the dress before the wedding, on the same bike.

Keep fabric well away from the rear wheel, chain or belt, and the exhaust. Exhaust pipes get hot fast, and a melted hem shows up in every photo.

Helmets, Hair and the Veil

Most states require helmets for at least some riders, and even where they don’t, a short ride is still a ride. Open-face helmets work best for photos, because they show your face and are easier to fit over a wedding hairstyle.

Tell your hair stylist about the exit early. Low buns and braids fit under a helmet better than tall updos. Some brides wear the helmet with the veil attached below it at the back. Others take the veil off for the ride and keep it for portraits. If you can, do a trial run with the helmet at your hair appointment.

White and cream helmets are easy to find, and some couples have matching ones painted or lettered with their names and wedding date. It makes a nice keepsake after the day.

Planning the Ride Itself

The exit is for the photographer, not for covering distance. Plan a slow ride out of the venue drive, a loop around the property, or a short trip down the road to where your car is waiting.

Talk to the venue first. Some don’t allow motorcycles on certain paths or near the building, and many have rules about late-night noise. Ask where the bike can be parked during the reception, and whether it can stay overnight.

Have a sober friend move the bike into position before the send-off, and plan where you’ll actually go afterward. If the hotel is twenty miles away on a dark highway, it might be smarter to ride to the end of the drive for photos and finish the night in a car.

Decorating the Bike

Bikes don’t have much room for decorations, so keep it simple and keep everything clear of the moving parts.

  • Hang a “Just Married” sign on the rear rack, sissy bar, or luggage rack, tied with soft cord.
  • Tie ribbons to the grips or mirrors, short enough that they can’t reach the wheels.
  • Skip cans. On a motorcycle, anything dragging behind you is a hazard.
  • Never use tape or adhesive on the paint, especially on a custom tank.

Getting the Bike to a Destination Wedding

If the venue is a few hours from home, riding the bike there the day before is fine. If it’s across the country, think twice. A 2,000-mile ride the week of your wedding puts miles on the bike, wears you out, and leaves no time to fix anything that goes wrong on the road.

Most couples in that situation use motorcycle shipping. The bike travels upright on a trailer, held with wheel chocks and soft straps, and it shows up clean and ready to ride. For a custom or vintage bike, enclosed transport keeps it out of the weather and away from road grit.

Some timing tips:

  • Book one to two weeks before you need the bike.
  • Schedule delivery two or three days before the wedding, not the day before.
  • Ask the venue, a nearby motorcycle shop, or your hotel whether they’ll receive the bike and keep it somewhere secure.
  • Plan the return trip at the same time, so the bike goes home a day or two after the wedding without anyone having to think about it.

Transit time depends on distance:

Distance Typical transit time
Under 800 miles 1–4 days
800–1,499 miles 4–7 days
1,500–2,399 miles 6–10 days
2,400+ miles 10–15 days

When the Car Needs to Come Too

A lot of couples planning a destination wedding turn it into a longer stay or a honeymoon road trip. If you want your own car there as well, car shipping on an open trailer typically costs about $0.64 to $0.88 a mile for long routes, so roughly $1,800 from Los Angeles to New York. Book the car and the bike together, and the paperwork and timing stay in one place, even if they ride on different trucks.

Remember that cars and bikes should travel empty. Personal items aren’t allowed inside during transport and aren’t covered by insurance, so pack the decorations, helmets, and the dress somewhere else.

Before the Bike Leaves Home

  • Leave about a quarter tank of fuel.
  • Check tire pressure and look for leaks.
  • Take off saddlebags and anything loose.
  • Photograph both sides, the tank and the odometer.
  • Hand over one key and keep the spare.

The driver will note the bike’s condition on a form called the Bill of Lading. Check it against the bike again at delivery before you sign.

FAQ

Can a bride ride on a motorcycle in a wedding dress?

Yes, with a bustled or shorter dress, sitting astride on the back seat. Keep fabric away from the rear wheel, chain, and exhaust.

What helmet works best for a wedding exit?

An open-face helmet. It shows your face in photos and fits more easily over a wedding hairstyle.

How far ahead should I ship a motorcycle to a destination wedding?

Book one to two weeks ahead and plan for the bike to arrive two or three days before the wedding.

Can I ship my car and motorcycle together?

Yes, you can book them together, though they may travel on different trucks.

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